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The Chaos Chronicles


Diagnosed with ADHD at 41: Turns Out, Tara Was Right
Getting diagnosed with ADHD at 41 explains a lot — the impulsive motorcycle, chaotic TV career, and why her nickname is Hammy. Cece takes us through her late-diagnosis journey with humor, honesty, and a reminder that you’re not broken — you’re just wired differently.
Aug 265 min read


Middle School: Impossible – The ADHD Edition
Middle school with ADHD wasn’t about algebra—it was about survival. My kid, Kei, turned every day into Mission: Impossible, starring in covert ops like hallway “errands,” bathroom hideouts, and nurse’s office escapes. Forget Ethan Hunt—this was ADHD Hunt.
Aug 196 min read


504 Plan? More Like 5,000 Emails and 4 Meltdowns Later — Part 3 of 3
Part 3 tackles high school accommodations, how to formally request a 504 Plan, how to handle school pushback, and a quick-reference checklist to keep you organized and unshakable.
Aug 117 min read


504 Plan? More Like 5,000 Emails and 4 Meltdowns Later — Part 2 of 3
Part 2 breaks down the exact accommodations to ask for in elementary and middle school — so you don’t show up to your 504 meeting empty-handed.
Aug 116 min read


504 Plan? More Like 5,000 Emails and 4 Meltdowns Later — Part 1 of 3
Part 1 covers the “what” and “why” of 504 Plans — including how they differ from IEPs, why most ND kids start here, and what you need to know before you ever walk into a school meeting.
Aug 115 min read


Freshman, Not Fresh Meat: Surviving High School with ADHD (and a Drumstick in Your Pocket)
Freshman year with ADHD isn’t just a new chapter—it’s a survival sport. From mastering the locker combo (without getting “axed”) to finding your people before day one, here’s how we’re tackling high school with humor, strategy, and maybe a drumstick in our pocket.
Aug 57 min read


Is My ADHD Kid Actually Ready for Sleep-away Camp?
Let’s be honest: launching your neurodivergent kid into sleepaway camp is less “peaceful summer break” and more “emotional cannonball into the unknown.” One minute you’re carefully labeling every sock, the next you’re decoding a single sentence letter that ends with, “Anyway, love ya”—which was definitely written by either ChatGPT or an alien named Elitneg Iek.
In this chaotic checklist meets camp survival guide, I break down what “readiness” actually looks like (spoiler: it
Jul 297 min read


NO, NO, AND… STILL NO: AN ADHD PARENTING STORY
According to Kei, I say “no” more than I say “hello.” But here’s the thing—boundaries aren’t just rules. For ADHD kids, they’re lifesavers in disguise. And yes, sometimes they look like silent standoffs, double-whisky survival strategies, and one well-timed Death Stare.
Jul 226 min read


Piece by Piece: How Puzzles (and My ADHD Kid) Snapped Into Place
Puzzles were never Kei’s thing. He couldn’t match shapes, didn’t care, and I may have mildly traumatized him with my neurotypical puzzle snobbery. But years later, something clicked—literally. Now he builds the border, makes the rules, and taps each piece into place like a king claiming his throne. I do the work. He gets the glory. It’s fine. I’m fine.
Jul 155 min read


“Mess? What Mess?” Welcome to Functional Chaos!
Ever tried to keep a clean house while raising an ADHD tornado who thinks the floor is the laundry basket? Welcome to my life. I’m a recovering neat freak, he’s a chaos connoisseur, and together we’ve mastered the art of Functional Chaos. If you've ever argued with a sock pile or considered labeling your entire house, this one's for you.
Jul 86 min read


This Week's 5 Best Fidget Toys & More: Because Stillness Is a Scam
Whether you're ADHD, autistic, anxious, or just chronically fidgety, these 5 sensory tools are the holy grail of focus and self-regulation. From spinners to squishy balls to magnetic rings, we tested them (and broke a few) so you don’t have to. This list is funny, functional, and fully stim-approved.
Jul 16 min read


This Ain’t Just Merch — It’s Sensory-Friendly Clothing For The Overstimulated
That hoodie isn’t just cute — it’s emotional armor. For the overstimulated and under-caffeinated, clothes are more than outfits. They’re communication tools. Sometimes even therapy.
Jun 244 min read


I'm Sorry for What I Said Before My Meds Kicked In (and After They Wore Off) - ADHD Parenting Survival Guide: Mornings, Mayhem & Mild Regret
Mornings start with a naked game of “Catch the Capsule,” evenings end with toothpaste interrogations, and somewhere in between, I’m just trying not to lose my mind. ADHD parenting isn’t for the faint of heart — but with humor, meds, and a little something called Strike Force, we survive one meltdown at a time.
Jun 175 min read


When Your ADHD Kid Comes Home Crying "Nobody Wants to Play With Me" - ADHD Parenting, Big Feelings & the After-School Breakdown Survival Guide
When your ADHD kid comes home sobbing, “Nobody wants to play with me,” and you’re two seconds from crying into your third cup of coffee—this one’s for you. From failed football experiments to drumsticks through drywall, here’s how we ditched forced friendships and found the chaos crew that actually gets him. Bonus: real tools, zero sugarcoating, and one rogue sock in a snack-covered shed.
Jun 106 min read


ND Fashion Survival Guide: Tags, Textures & That One Shirt You Can’t Stop Wearing
Clothes that itch, squeeze, or betray you mid-wear? Hard pass. Dive into the ND wardrobe rules — tagless, stim-safe, and worn ‘til it walks away.
Jun 32 min read


My Brain (Okay, His Brain) Made Me Do It: The ND Life Origin Story
It all started with a 3D printer, a fidget-hustling ADHD kid, and a mom trying to caffeinate her way through the chaos. Spoiler: we were just trying to make a toy. Instead, we built a brand.
May 293 min read
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