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The Great Club Day Con: How Free Pizza Turned My Kid Into a Joiner
When ADHD meets high school Club Day, things get… sticky. My son came home signed up for ten clubs — none of which he actually remembers — but he can tell you who had the best snacks. From free pizza to forgotten sign-up sheets, this is the story of how one ADHD teen turned Club Day into an all-you-can-eat buffet of “involvement.”
Oct 16, 20254 min read


Diagnosed with ADHD at 41: Turns Out, Tara Was Right
Getting diagnosed with ADHD at 41 explains a lot — the impulsive motorcycle, chaotic TV career, and why her nickname is Hammy. Cece takes us through her late-diagnosis journey with humor, honesty, and a reminder that you’re not broken — you’re just wired differently.
Aug 26, 20255 min read


Middle School: Impossible – The ADHD Edition
Middle school with ADHD wasn’t about algebra—it was about survival. My kid, Kei, turned every day into Mission: Impossible, starring in covert ops like hallway “errands,” bathroom hideouts, and nurse’s office escapes. Forget Ethan Hunt—this was ADHD Hunt.
Aug 19, 20256 min read


504 Plan? More Like 5,000 Emails and 4 Meltdowns Later — Part 3 of 3
Part 3 tackles high school accommodations, how to formally request a 504 Plan, how to handle school pushback, and a quick-reference checklist to keep you organized and unshakable.
Aug 11, 20257 min read


504 Plan? More Like 5,000 Emails and 4 Meltdowns Later — Part 2 of 3
Part 2 breaks down the exact accommodations to ask for in elementary and middle school — so you don’t show up to your 504 meeting empty-handed.
Aug 11, 20256 min read


504 Plan? More Like 5,000 Emails and 4 Meltdowns Later — Part 1 of 3
Part 1 covers the “what” and “why” of 504 Plans — including how they differ from IEPs, why most ND kids start here, and what you need to know before you ever walk into a school meeting.
Aug 11, 20255 min read


Piece by Piece: How Puzzles (and My ADHD Kid) Snapped Into Place
Puzzles were never Kei’s thing. He couldn’t match shapes, didn’t care, and I may have mildly traumatized him with my neurotypical puzzle snobbery. But years later, something clicked—literally. Now he builds the border, makes the rules, and taps each piece into place like a king claiming his throne. I do the work. He gets the glory. It’s fine. I’m fine.
Jul 15, 20255 min read


This Week's 5 Best Fidget Toys & More: Because Stillness Is a Scam
Whether you're ADHD, autistic, anxious, or just chronically fidgety, these 5 sensory tools are the holy grail of focus and self-regulation. From spinners to squishy balls to magnetic rings, we tested them (and broke a few) so you don’t have to. This list is funny, functional, and fully stim-approved.
Jul 1, 20256 min read
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